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Not For Lazy MomsWe Want It All.We Do It All.
What mom is lazy? Being a mother is one of the most challenging, yet fulfilling jobs you can ever experience. It requires wearing several hats and using several hands to multitask and get the jobs done.
Not for Lazy Moms is a community for new generation moms who want it all and do it all. We strive to be the best versions of ourselves - in our parenting, relationships, careers, and self-care. This is a site for everyone!
Confessions: My Daughter’s Vitiligo Has Been An Ongoing Journey
The last thing I thought about after struggling to have a child for 3 years, is that I would have a child with a serious skin condition.
Ways to Help Your Child in the Midst of Transitions
Try these tips to help you and your child navigate a successful school year.
Making Something Out of Nothing with Special Guest, Author, Daneen Quarles!
Monique and Riley, joined by Daneen Quarles, discuss how to use our time wisely. Are you busy being Busy or Productive?
Quarantine Life Taught Me How To…. Be A Boss
Are you a new person now that you've come out of the house? What have you learned about yourself? Or do you feel you have achieved little during this time? What is blocking you from success?
What it Truly means to HELP- Essence Essential Hero Honoree Ray Nell Jones
Monique and Riley, joined by Ray Nell Jones, discuss the meaning and importance of helping your community.
S1-E09: Miscarriage
Dr. Simone of Bravo’s Married To Medicine joins the team to answer all medical questions and set the record straight on some miscarriage myths.
Confessions: Every Now And Then I Take An “Ugly” Day
Mommy is not here today. Say no to makeup, hair and getting dressed altogether. Nothing about this day is pretty… well, except for the fact that I can do whatever I want, which is nothing at all.
Walk This Way – The Dad Shoe
Keep up with your little ones in these Dad Sneakers, for Mom
My Favorite Mixes: Nasal Congestion & Sinus Infection
I always try nasal solutions on myself before applying them on my children. If it's too strong for me, then it's much too strong for my kids.
My Favorite Mixes: Ear infection & Tonsillitis Remedy
Any time I treat the ears, I always also treat the nose and throat, since they’re all connected. See also Nasal Rinse For Nasal Congestion (This was for my 6-month old baby. Increase dosage for older children or adults...
The Ear Infection Nightmare
How I avoided using antibiotics for my daughter's double ear infection.
Ways To Boost The Immune System
With all of the germs we expose ourselves to on a daily basis, it's nice to give our bodies a little boost. Who has time to be sick? Not me! Here are a few ways to keep a cold away... or at least to decrease the amount of sick...
S03-E14: Generational Wealth: Estate Planning 101
Learn the basics of estate planning with the Samuels family's personal estate planning attorney.
From The Confessions Wall
Confession: Hoarding Cookies
Submitted by: Anonymous
Washington, DC
I tell my daughter she can pick one cookie. Meanwhile, I’m hoarding 3 in my pocket to eat when she’s not looking.
Confession: Rock to Sleep
Submitted by: Stacey
Brooklyn, NY
When my daughter was a baby we used to rock her to sleep, not realizing what a terrible idea that was at the time. So I had to retrain her to go to sleep without being rocked. My pediatrician said let her cry for 5 minutes, pick her up & calm her down, put her back in the crib, & then do it again at 10 mins, 15 mins, etc. Each time increasing by 5 mins. It was the worst night of my life. I wound up sitting on my terrace balling my eyes out, trying to drown out her screaming & crying for just about 4 1/2 hrs straight by blasting music through headphones! I think i went through 2 packs of cigarettes & a bottle of wine. She actually finally cried herself to sleep right before that 4 1/2 hr mark. But increasing by 5 mins to get there, you can imagine how long that was. But it worked, I never had to rock her again. 1 long night of hell was all it took. FYI my daughter is 28 years old now, it's still one of the worst nights of my life!
Confession: Bathroom Tears
Submitted by: Allegre
Columbia, SC
My daughter was diagnosed with leukemia in April. I can't let my emotions get the best of me until everyone is asleep. I then go in the bathroom and cry my eyes out.
Upcoming Event: Sound Bath Meditation Series & Mila Eve Essentials Pop-Up
Take a deep dive into the realms of your consciousness. Immerse yourself in sound and meditate while doing it.
